We are currently on vacation, hence the short break from the blog. However, as I’m sitting here in our apartment, counting down to dinner, I can’t help but think about the new year!
I’m not a huge fan of new year resolutions because I cannot honestly tell you that I have ever truly completed any, or know any one that has! However, I see the reason behind them as they help you focus and align your thoughts towards your goals, albeit in most cases temporarily.
So, I am asking, what would you like to have achieved in a years time (notice how I haven’t used the words new year resolution above!)? If like me you like writing in notebooks, get out your 2016 notebook and write down your goals for the year. If you do not know what your goals are yet, spend the next week thinking about this and then dedicate about 30 minutes, while it is still fresh in your head, writing this down.
Your goals do not have to be groundbreaking or sound impressive, sometimes, it is righting the small things that helps us to achieve greatness. You know yourself better than anyone else, be honest with yourself and make sure your goals are focused on areas you know you can improve on. Your goals should stretch you and shouldn’t be something you can accomplish in a day. Don’t think about it as a new year resolution, but as investing in yourself as a person and in your future. Pick goals that will contribute in building you up personally or professionally. A number of people tend to go for loosing weight or dieting in the new year, if that is you and you have never been to the gym before, give it a few months before committing financially long term to a gym. It is very possible to lose weight without going to a gym. Join a local boot camp, by an exercise dvd that costs way less than a gym membership, research on eating clean and healthy, make these small changes, build up your stamina and then if you are still disciplined enough to follow through with a gym membership, go for it. This is just a tip as I have fallen for this before, joined a gym, hardly ever went and I was locked into a 12 months contract!
Finally, for this to be effective, you need to be accountable to someone you trust. We all have a number of friends with different personality traits. Pick one that you know will genuinely help you on this journey and be accountable to each other.
As for me, I have quite a few things I will like to accomplish by the end of the year, but in the spirit of accountability I will share one. I need to get my finances on lock down! I need to spend less and save more. I’m a kind of person that if something needs to be done, I just do it without thinking too much of the financial repercussions, from birthday presents for friends and family to gifts for different occasions and just generally buying nice to haves for myself and friends. 2016 for me is the year to find other thoughtful ways to be nice and cut down drastically on nice to haves and focus on need to haves where necessary!
I will definitely keep you posted and my plan is to reflect on how I am getting on monthly. This is going to be a huge challenge for me, but I pray that I will be able to discipline myself enough to go through with it as it will be very worthwhile!
I wish you all the best as you embark on this journey! Have a blessed and fulfilling year ahead!